About Us

Victoria, BC, Canada
This blog began as a modern "baby book" for our first child, Finlay, who was born in December of 2010. The recent addition of Seamus, born in January of 2013, has meant continued efforts to put into words and pictures his early years. We also use this forum to catalog our family life: two loving partners, two beautiful kids, car-free, child-centred, attachment-focused, with a love of food and health thrown into the mix!

"T" is for Teething and Terrible

July 19, 2011

Finlay was not a happy camper this past weekend.  He encountered some intense teething.  In June, when he got his first two teeth, he had some fitful sleeps and some general crankiness, a "lava poo" (as Nans dubbed it) and, ta-da, teeth!  It was not quite as easy this time around.  We have never seen Finlay cry so hard and for so long.  The poor little guy was inconsolable.  Tyler and I felt so bad for him.  I almost started to cry right along with him as he did back-bends and frothed and had tears streaming down his face!  He looked at me with these "help me!" eyes and it was so sad because there was little I could do... or was there!

Everyday, Fin will play and we will put on some music.  His favourite song, at this point, is "Share" by Renee & Jeremy.  Any time we play it for him he bops his had and wiggles and smiles.  So, after crying for some time, and with Tyler and I unsure of what to do, we put on "Share" and before in intro drum beat met the opening line he was smiling, still hyperventilating, but bright eyed and grinning.  We danced and sang to his favourite songs.  We gave him some homeopathics, rubbed some vanilla extract on his gums, and then cuddled in bed and soon he was in a deep sleep.

On Monday, Finlay had the "lava poo" - I've never talked about poo on here before, but I can't help it in this case.  So we expected to see teeth this morning.  There are some tough gums but still no teeth.  But we are back to a calm, happy, napping/sleeping well Finlay.  Thanks Renee & Jeremy!

Between his favourite music and the rocker, oh, and his "Boogee" toy, I'm not sure how we would have got through it.  Tyler and I are so tired.  The house is a disaster.  We had to eat out a couple times because we had no energy to cook or do dishes...  But I know neither of us felt as bad as Fin.

But Finlay found a lot of things to chew on!  In particular, my necklace and his "Sophie" (a giraffe).

This is his sad little face.  

The first teeth.  The fuzz at the bottom right is his hand.  

A "this feels good" look.


But with the tough stuff comes more growth and more adorable videos!

Finlay loves his Jolly Jumper!  He knows the sign for "jump" and he starts kicking his legs in the air before I even hook him up.  Very different from the 3 month old in the original jumping video.

Finlay Jumping:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_RU_rSm5VU

Finlay has really started to move.  One day he hated being on his tummy and the next day he realized that he could move on his front.  The following day he was pulling and pushing himself along the floor!  Now he is pushing up onto his knees and looking at where he wants to go and going there.  We really need to get baby-proofing because crawling isn't that far away.

Finlay on the Move:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tCW5BgklR5M

Finlay at Seven Months Old

July 14, 2011

This is going by way too fast.  Both Tyler and I keep shaking our heads in disbelief.  It seems like yesterday Finlay was this tiny baby wearing a black kitten hat!

Finlay has definitely learned a lot of the last month.  He can move things from one hand to the other.  He understands that a mirror shows a reflection and where to look for the person in the mirror.  He understands that when we go into another room that we still exist - this means separation anxiety when I leave and a lot of excitement and reaching for me when I return.  This is really sweet but also exhausting.  Tyler feels a little rejected...

Also, we have made lots of progress with the sign language.  Finlay is babbling with his hands (moving them but not making any signs).  He recognized a bunch of signs when we do them including; eat, more, milk, book, cat, water, jump (for Jolly Jumper), and music.  We are working on fan, bath and toy (sometimes he seems to recognize these).  Also, we have introduced mummy, daddy, aunt, uncle, grandma, grandpa, play, diaper, dance, dog, hurt, chiropractor, cracker, cookie, happy and a few more.  We just keep using signs and every few days or so he seems to understand another.  He is very interested in what our hands are doing!

We went to the park to try out the baby swing.  There seems to be some playground politics that we have yet to understand.  I don't think we upset anyone but it took a long time to get an empty swing and I watched some interesting interactions while waiting.  Have to learn some of that!  Here is a video of that first swing!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C91k7Luc6Go

He seems to enjoy it but he was distracted by the water sprinkler and the kids playing.  We'll try again soon!

Finlay in his stroller enjoying a teething cookie.

Finlay has been to many cafes.  Here he is in Tre Fantastico (centre), just down the street from our place, sitting with his dad (right) who is enjoying an americano (left).

Finlay on the swing.

He was smiling and giggling!

"This is the best day of my life - Day 207!"

Yes, as of today, Finlay is:
7 months old
OR 30 weeks old
OR 212 days old
OR just over 5,000 hours old
OR about 305 thousand minutes old
OR 18.3 million seconds old and counting...
And always a source of joy and love!

Sailing!

July 10, 2011

Today, the Kennedy family was kind enough to take our little family sailing!  Tyler and I learned a little about the boat and how to help a Skipper, we also learned some things about sailing with a baby (like rigging up a bed and to try wearing the life-jacket at home first...), and Finlay met some wonderful people and was the centre of attention on the ocean (which is different than on land).

The weather was beautiful!  The sky was so big and had lots of interesting clouds.  It was warm (for the North Pacific) and not too windy (and sometimes not windy enough!).

Our Skipper, Hilary.  She did an excellent job of sailing the boat!

Tyler inside the cabin.  Bruce, Hilary's dad, made a sweet rig for Finlay's bassinet and you can see that to the right of Tyler (there is a blue, yellow and white quilt draped over Fin as he was sleeping).  I think Tyler was thinking he would like to crawl under the quilt and nap too.

And here is an awake Fin and Tyler.  He enjoyed showing Sophie the Giraffe the ocean. 

Smiling babe wearing a hat.  He also had loads of sunscreen on.  A red-headed mum comes in handy!

Hilary and Finlay exchanging serious looks.

We stopped at a nice spot for lunch.  The Skipper entertained Finlay with funny looks and sounds.

 
Lynn, Hilary's mom, had some baby games up her sleeve.  There were giggles, smiles, and some serious Finlay looks, of course.

Tyler steered the boat for a little while.  He was responsible for the wind dying...

Finlay and I read his "Tacky" book.  Bruce, Lynn and Hilary were impressed with his intensity while being read a book.

He seems to consistently look at the left page first and the right page after.  He is starting to try and help turn pages as well!

Can't read just one book to Finlay.  Bruce read him his favourite Dr. Seuss, "Hand, Hand, Fingers, Thumb."

Finlay had two naps on board.  The rocking of the boat was good for that!  Here he is in his bassinet after his last nap.  He is looking at me saying "get me up please!"

Finlay in his car seat on the dock at the end of the day.

It was a very nice first day sailing for Finlay.  We were all pretty tired at the end of the day!  But it was a satisfied tired as had spent the day with good friends, good food, outside and enjoying life as a family. 
Can't wait until the next time!

  

A New Perspective

July 7, 2011

Before we went to Ontario, we picked out a high-chair online but just didn't get around to ordering it.  Of course, when there was word of a possible strike within the Canada Post, I made the order quickly.  Not quick enough!  The high-chair was stuck in at the boarder for weeks but now it is here!  It was worth the wait.  I was so excited that I tried to build it as soon at it arrived so that Finlay could have dinner in it.  But, he wanted to play so the chair had to wait.  As with most things, it was built after Finlay went down for the night. It was easy enough to put together and the finished product is so beautiful!  The chair is functional art for the house!  Thanks to Nans & Gramps for helping out with this one!

Here is Finlay at breakfast the next morning.  He had a rice "rusk" (cracker) and some water while we ate.  He loved it!  As our friend Aaron pointed out, it must be a whole new perspective from the chair.  A new height and a new way to interact with us when we are at the table.

The kitchen table is such a special place where lots of memories are made.  This chair turns into a toddler and kid chair and even an everybody chair!

What a big baby!  He is getting so strong and curious and smart and....  It's crazy how every little thing he does blows my mind!

Here is a video of Finlay playing with his toy "Boogie" from his Auntie Car.  Notice that he is moving things from one hand to the other!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ipb3QWgH3lc

That's all for now.  Gotta get ready for a busy weekend of sailing and camping!

A Little Foodie

July 5, 2011

As you know, when we were away in Ontario, Finlay celebrated his half-birthday; and now he is nearly seven months old!  I didn't have a chance to write about his six-month birthday but I can tell you now that there were cupcakes, a nice dinner, and glasses raised in Finlay's honour.  The cupcakes were coconut-lime and they were so yummy!  Finlay didn't have one, of course, but he did have some prunes...

Tyler and I LOVE food.  We love to cook and bake and try new things.  We both think it is pretty exciting to be helping to shape this little one's palate and relationship with food.  The other day, Finlay and I were on a walk and I had a few spots I needed to hit.  At the first stop, I bought him some teething cookies.  They smell like molasses and are just long rectangles.  I put a bib on him and gave him one in the stroller as we walked.  He really enjoyed it!  At first, he wasn't quite sure what to do with it and kept taking it out of his mouth, studying it, and then trying to put it back in (missing his mouth entirely).  He was full of smiles and he talked to the cookie too.  Eventually, he had cookie all over his face, hands and the bib.  He started looking pretty tired, his eyes kept half-closing, so I tried to take the cookie away...  Needless to say, he wanted it back!  I returned the cookie to him and, rather than putting it back in his mouth, he embraced the sweet and soggy thing.  He promptly fell asleep cuddling with his first cookie.

It was so cute but I didn't have a camera!  He was covered in cookie and drool, with a slight smile, his head hanging to one side, grasping what was left of the cookie with both hands on his chest.  Slowly, as he fell into a deeper sleep, his arms relaxed and fell to his sides.  His jaw relaxed and his little mouth was slightly open displaying some cookie-drool (gross to some, cute to a mum).  I wondered what he would dream about...

Here is Finlay eating a different cookie a few days later.

He likes to tell us how good it is!

He has learned the sign for water and how to hold his sippy cup!  It is remarkable how quickly he learned this!  He really loves water!

Here is Fin and I on a cool day on the balcony.  We took the picture because we thought he looked like a little man in his jeans and flannel shirt.

So cute!  This outfit was a Value Village score.  

So... when was June?

June 29, 2011

I can't believe that the month of June is nearly over!  We were very busy and didn't seem to have many moments of "normal."  I've missed more regular blogging and some really special milestones.  Finlay is six months old and he has two little teeth coming in.  Also, he's starting taking piano lessons (just kidding, see video below).

But, from the beginning of the month we've been in Ontario, home with house-guests, or sick.  Hopefully July will be more relaxed.  I have posted some pictures and a couple of videos below.

Our friends Rachel and James stayed with us.  They gave Finlay a little piano to borrow while he is a little guy.

He showed these two musicians a thing or two about song.

 We got a play-mat for Finlay.  It's a great place to hang out and play... or enjoy a morning coffee.

Went to Hilary and Calvin's place for an excellent picnic in their beautiful garden.  Homemade buns, veggie pate, salad - so good!  

I made some more S'mores Cupcakes.  They turned out pretty and pretty tasty.

Busy month, but happy!


See an excellent video of Finlay laughing with his Nans in Ontario:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wW5r_Z8evEY

Watch Finlay rocking out on the piano:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v9OSaItwAJ4